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I like pretty much anything from rock to rap to country to oldies... you name it, i probably like it.
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I love motorcycles and street bikes. I have found interest in biker gang books. mainly the ones from the good guys trying to act bad. like : Under and Alone, and No Angel. however, im not interested in being an outlaw biker, i just like to read about them.
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The world! I want to see more of the United States first then move my way to the outter countries...
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Sorry man!
I hope you see the light. I think this is a good thin for you, even thou it hurts. Now you get to focus on you fully. How do you even know she would like the new you when you are done?I think you should just work on you then worry about woman.When you get to the place you want to be with yourself, you wont have to look for a women, they will seek you out.Keep your head up.
neo
i have to keep telling myself that its a good thing. i admit, i have alot of negative feelings towards her because of how she treated me for so long. it feels good that i stood up to her but at the sametime it still stings. in the end, i know the path she it taking and its not a safe and health path for her or her children. i know that im on the road to recovery and in the end, ill be in a way better place than she ever will be. i dont want to sound to negative towards her but i know her enough that i know the path she is heading down. thanks for all the well wishes guys...
im sorry :(
im sorry for your heartache. But things do happen for a reason and maybe this is the opportunity for you to really start moving on.
And I hate to say the cliche' "time heals all wounds" but it's very true.
*hugs*
we are here for you.
thanks doll!
the thing that has been bothering me alot today as well as last night is i keep having these feelings of extreme anger towards her. it bothers me to feel this way and i know i shouldnt feel this way. i should be happy that im out of a horrible relationship. im trying to greive the right way but i dont want anger to be part of it.
i guess the anger comes from being in stalemate for so long that i feel like ive wasted time on her for the entire 2 years of being around her.
YAMI!
I came to Tools because I felt EXACTLY like how you feel now. TRUST ME, I can tell you know it was the best decision for you and it HURTS LIKE A MO-FO right now, but this is for the best! BELIEVE THAT!
Truth hurts. I've had my share of the ugly smack in the cajones. But it's like a bucket of cold water to the face, IT WAKES YOU UP and puts your alert levels to red. TRUST your instinct!
You are better off, you are progressing nicely with Tools, and that woman is going to miss your loving! NO ONE'S significant other should CONSTANTLY make them feel like dog doo and play with your feelings. I went through it and I've vowed NEVER to let it happen to me again.
YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THIS DRAMA, YAMIBOY. Don't settle.
Good luck, too. We're here for ya.