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I like pretty much anything from rock to rap to country to oldies... you name it, i probably like it.
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I love motorcycles and street bikes. I have found interest in biker gang books. mainly the ones from the good guys trying to act bad. like : Under and Alone, and No Angel. however, im not interested in being an outlaw biker, i just like to read about them.
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The world! I want to see more of the United States first then move my way to the outter countries...
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talk
if somethin is on ur mind the best thing to do is talk about. yeah , it will make u upset, but think, if u dunt talk about it then all ur emotions will be bottled up inside you. you feel how you feel regardless if you talk about it, but talkin about it makes you feel less bottled up inside and will hopefully help u find outlets for ur stress and negative feelins.
tough call...
this one's a toss-up. Sometimes it's good to talk and other times it's good to let it heal and move on. Sounds to me like you're ready to move on, since you've been dealing with this for so long, but to others it's fresh and they are curious. It's your story, and I think you're ready for this chapter to end. You don't owe anyone an explanation- it's your story- write your ending, close the book and move on. Heal my friend.
ugh...
Generally, I think it's best to leave it at a "we ended it" type of statement....it kinda sounds like that's how you truly feel, too. It's always a classier move to leave the details out, especially with mutual friends. I think if you were like, we ended it, and I'm not really in a place yet where I feel like talking about it, people would (or should) respect that.
However, if you have close friends, or siblings, someone that you can really open up to - I definitely think you should. And if not, hey, you have us! :)
thank you!
i think for the time being, ill not be talking about it because of the emotions that come up. instead ill just do what i can to heal and move on. in time, for those friends that understand and care for me, they wont push the subject of tellin them what happened. in time, ill tell them what happened. right now, its really hard because any word about her and its like an overflow of emotions for me.
i think for the time being ill put the bandaid on there and when it starts healing, ill slowly pull it back. i can always check it and if it isnt healed yet, i can always put it back on.
thanks for the advice so far! it helps!