I was born and raise in San Diego, Ca. and i love it here. i would never move. i love to be active outdoors. im up for anything... camping, hunting, riding my streetbike, riding my quad, hitting the surf, cruise the beach on my beach cruiser. i was born in a both optimistic and pessimistic household. i use to have a mixture of both. the pessimistic side usually was in the self reflection of myself. i never allowed myself to really live because i was to worried about what others thought of me. my issues came to a head recently when my ex, or, well, i dont know what she is right now, but girlfriend said she cant be around me right now because of it. i did alot of self reflecting and i listened to the Jason Ellis show and he kept talking about this site. so i thought "what the hell? what do i can to lose?" well ive lost nothing in this process. ive gained myself, my confidence, and much, much more! i still have a long ways to go and i know my girl still loves me but i know we both have to work on ourselves before we can work on our relationship.