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Help me deal with my husbands porn thing...

 

 

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Fri, Aug 28 05:42 PM

Help me deal with my husbands porn thing...

 

Ok, so I may sound crazy to some of you and not crazy to some...but I have such a hard time dealing with the fact that my husband looks at porn.  I mean, I know that pretty much all men do it.  But it makes me feel like something is wrong with me, obviously I am not enough to make him happy if he needs to look at other women.  And he looks at things that he says he does not want to try...I am open to trying the things he looks at...but he says he doesn't want to.  What gives?  I just don't know how to feel.  He hides it from me...and I use to go looking for it all the time.  But like today, I just stumbled upon it and immediately started crying.  I dont want to push him away by arguing with him.  I dont even know how to talk to him about because he just tells me how stupid and crazy I am and threatens to leave me.  Maybe I need to hear a mans perspective...or a perspective from a woman who is ok with it.  I have friends that tell me its his alternative...but why should he need an alternative if he supposedly loves me?  Is there seriously a way that I can train my brain to be ok with this?  It's so bad that the second I leave the house...or like today, the room he looks at it.  I even got to the point that of taking the internet cord with me when I leave...and I know that is soo crazy!  I dont want to be like that.  But he obviously cannot stop so I need to learn to deal with it.  HELP!!

 

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