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Music:
I like all kinds of music...I really enjoy Rock (Metal, Hard, and Alternative), and I do enjoy country music.
Books:
I am a fan of the Twilight series, I like the book Redeeming Love, and I also love the book The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein.
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Hobbies:
This is an area that I need improvement in...I dont really have any hobbies...I mean, I camp and fish...but there isnt anything that I do to let me escape from reality anytime I want.
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I Want To Meet:
This is going to sound really weird...I think it would be interesting to meet my husbands father. I never really talk about it with him because I know that he would tell me I am crazy. But my husbands father left when he was young, and I am just super curious as to what kind of man he is. Did he have a valid reason for walking out on his 4 children? Isn't he curious at all as to what his children have grown into? It would just be interesting.
Tools Goal List:
Areas In My Life I Want To Work On
- - Weight
- - Career
- - Relationship
- - Getting in shape
- - Finances
- - Vacation
- - Education
- - Others
I Want To Quit Or Control
Skills I Am Interested In
- - Goal setting
- - Visualization
- - Public speaking
- - Focus
- - Management
- - Motivation
I Suffer From
- - Anxiety
- - Depression
- - Low self-esteem
yentroc07's Life List:
| Be happy with myself |
| Make my marriage a strong, happy one |
| Be a great mother |
| Be financially comfortable |
| Make friends that will always be there for me |
| GET MY SON POTTY TRAINED!! |
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says: Oh and no your not old your hot. You can satisfy him so when the rest say no i say yes. no communication with sex is the problem. Babe seduce that mother fer you still got it. no need for negative feedback from this. all guys look at porn and you won't get away from that. but if its taking away from your fun time seduce him. if he ain't wearing the shoes step in. and no its not your fault you need to put the mojo back in him if it works which i no it will let me no. I had a whole lotta starfish and i got that inner sex hound outta em cheers and good luck!
says: Hi my names mike and if porn is the problem there are solutions. sex is a major part of a relationship. checked your pic and your a good looking women sorry to say if it offends you i'de get with you and iam 24 and i get with alot of women. Don't look for women advice because i no almost positive whats going on in his brain. He has fantasy or fetish and he should be able to fullfill his fantasy with you. mix it up next time groan louder take control. go to the sex store with him and get him to pic out something and get that sexy school girl outfit. if you take those parts you'll see what turns him on then conversation will arise. HE FEELS UNCOMFORTABLE DISCUSSING IT! He may feel he lost the ways of satisfying you which is a major kick to a mans personality and pride. Then at the end say "oh my god babe (credible and nasty) have fun
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Just know that he loves you, inside and care about you too. Don't let it get to you, it's his ego that want more, just give him more attention and talk more about how you feel inside. He has a habit it's like drugs, it needs to be withdrawn from slowly. As one get older we want to wonder what life could have been like if we had this gal of that guy.
Just know it's not you that he is trying to hurt he just has a vivid imagination that need feeding, maybe a night of escasy for both of you away from the kids to be like it used to be when you met... Lovers need love.
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It's so funny that a flat picture on a screen can turn a guy on better than a real gal. Like playboy and it's magazine is so widely distributed to men. Sometime a little fantacy in lovemaking, helps to make it better for both parties. As we get older we don't look like we used to, and that goes for both male and female. So if we close our eyes and think of how things used to be, it creates a glow inside us, So it improves our lovemaking with our lover. We are not cheating with the image just pretending, the new experience will help us to get closer, like we used to be... It's like trying new positions we see, and wonder how it would be to do that stuff... Imagination takes us to a better place sometimes to help cope with life and love.
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A lot of couples struggle with the problem of porn, if it replaces intimacy between the couple or if the wife feels she is constantly being compared to unrealistic airbrushed images of surgically altered models.
There is a great website, I hope it's ok if I mention it here: www.marriagebuilders.com. There are lots of articles, including some that deal with problems associated with porn. There is also a discussion group where you can ask questions and talk to others who have been in similar situations.
I am not affiliated with them in any way other than I have benefitted from their website. FWIW I've also posted about this site, on the Marriage Builders site, and at least one person came hre and finished the course, so I hope it's ok that I mention it here.
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I don't know you and I am not married...
but I grew up in a house where my dad watched porno. I watched it for a time period myself, until I saw house young the girls were getting and I was uphauled....
anyway I am sure you have spoken with you husband, so I would suggest a marriage counselor to help you talk about your feelings
from my understanding porno is a addiction and it tkes time to rehab from this
you and your family are in my prayers
says: You are correct alot of men look at porn and most wives feel the same way you feel about them looking at it. Most men dont look at porn because they are missing something in their realationships, they look because it is exciting. Your husband should be more open with you about this topic because I think you are more upset with the sneaking around than the actual act. If your husband cant stop looking at porn he may have a problem that goes deeper than just wanted to look at porn. Most men look at porn the same way they look at youtube videos as entertainment but if your husband has a need to look all the time you may want to seek some help from a professional and I would be more concrened that he dosen't want to work on this issue withy you. You have to realize that he is most likely not looking at porn to replace you or as an alternate to you but as an additional means of entertainment.